Skip to content

Gratitude· · 3 min read

Keeping a signature tradition alive when your team doubles

By The Thankscrate team

A founder writing a personal card while teammates prepare teal gift boxes in a creative studio

Almost every company with a strong culture has one. A founder who writes every anniversary card by hand. A one-year gift that is made, not bought. A foreman who takes the whole crew to dinner when a job wraps.

These traditions are often the best thing about working somewhere. They are also, almost always, held together by one person. And when the company doubles, or the person changes roles, they are the first thing to break.

How traditions break

The math is unforgiving. A ritual that takes an evening a month at 40 people takes a week a month at 200. A handmade gift that was charming at two anniversaries a month becomes impossible at forty.

What usually happens next is one of three things:

  1. The tradition quietly stops. Nobody decides to end it. It stops happening, and the newer employees never learn it existed.
  2. It becomes uneven. The original team still gets the handwritten card; people hired after the growth spurt do not. That creates exactly the divide between long-tenured and new staff that growing companies worry about.
  3. The person burns out keeping it going. They feel guilty letting it slip and exhausted keeping it up.

None of these is a good outcome, and all of them are avoidable.

Separate the meaning from the mechanics

Every tradition has two parts: the part that carries the meaning and the part that is logistics. A founder’s handwritten card means “someone at the top noticed you, personally.” The handwriting is how that was delivered at a small scale.

Ask what your tradition is really saying, then protect that and let the logistics scale.

Tradition What it means How to keep it at scale
Handwritten card from the founder Leadership noticed you A personal note from your manager, with a line from leadership on milestone years
Custom one-year gift You are part of something distinctive Keep the custom item, and source it so it can be produced and shipped at volume
Crew dinner after a big job We did this together Send each crew member something at home, so people on every site are included
Cake in the break room We celebrate each other A gift that reaches remote and site-based people on the day

Keep the signature item, change how it gets made

Some traditions are worth keeping exactly as they are. If your one-year gift is a custom piece that everyone in the company recognizes, do not replace it with something generic. Find a way to produce it at volume, through a vendor that can make and ship it, so the item survives even if the original maker cannot keep up.

The goal is that your 300th employee receives the same thing your 30th did.

Move the note to the person closest to the employee

At small scale, a note from the founder is powerful because the founder knows everyone. At larger scale, the person who actually knows the employee is their manager. A sincere note from a manager who mentions something specific will usually mean more than a signature from a leader who has never met them.

Leadership still has a role: on milestone anniversaries, a short line from a senior leader shows the tradition reaches the top.

Make it the same for everyone

As you scale a tradition, make sure it applies to every employee in the same situation, including new hires, people who joined through an acquisition, part-time staff, and people at sites far from headquarters. A tradition that only reaches the original team becomes a marker of who belongs, which is the opposite of what it was for.

A plan for the next growth spurt

  1. List your traditions and who keeps each one going.
  2. For each, write down what it means in one sentence.
  3. Decide which parts must stay exactly the same (the item, the timing, the words) and which can change.
  4. Move dates and triggers into a system so nothing depends on one person’s memory.
  5. Give managers a prompt to write the personal part.
  6. Check that every new group of employees is included from their first day.

Thankscrate keeps the dates, prompts the right person for the note, and handles the gift. See how manager recognition works.

More on gratitude

Gratitude

Your employees notice who got a gift

Inconsistent recognition can do more harm than none at all. Why fairness is the foundation of an appreciation program, and how to build it in from the start.

· 3 min read

The Good Human Company Podcast

Keep going: the podcast.

Founders, HR leaders, and operators on recognition and culture.

Make appreciation automatic.

Thankscrate handles birthdays, work anniversaries, and 40+ other occasions for you.